Selamat Hari Raya
Maaf Zahir dan Batin :)
Hope your first day of Hari Raya was better than mine.. mine was spent in bed with a fever, with a temperature that was high enough to cook an egg and spewing just like the girl in The Exorcist =)
disgusted? just be happy you weren't there...
But the upside of being sick is that I'm treated like a princess by Grumpy.. Its really sweet on how hard he tries to make me comfortable, even after i ralphed over his hoodie.. Haha yes too much information..
But yes, i heart him =)
Hakeemachine left on the morning of first day of Hari Raya, joining Santy who was heading up to Manchester.. Though later that day, Bazilahs sister, Ka Amalina, came down from Manchester to stay with us over the weekend.. Ka Amalina is leaving tomoro night, and Santy is also coming home from Manchester tmoro night.. It's like a tag-team =P
I was surfing the net, and i came across a certain girl's blog... To be honest, I've been wary of this girl ever since the first time I met her, and over time, from how I've seen her act around other people, my reasons to dislike her keeps adding up...
But from her blog, I've learnt that her father is now gone.. And from that fact, I've decided to cut her some slack...
This reminded me of another time last year when another friend of a friend, who I initially didnt like, but tolerated for politeness sake, lost her father, and i decided to cut her some slack and make an extra effort to be nice.. And one of my friends pointed out that that was really superficial of me, as I was only being nice to her just because her father had passed away... I wasnt being nice to her because I started to like her, but was because I was feeling sorry for her loss... He pointed out that even though they've lost someone dear to them, it doesnt give them a free pass to be mean to others...
I dont really know if what i'm doing is superficial or the right thing, but its just what i've decided to do.. They've suffered a loss..And I (alhamdulillah) don't have any idea how that feels like, but i'll give them the benefit of the doubt...
* i apologize if this post has painted me as insensitive or if i have hurt anyones feelings *
On a lighter note. I'm in love with Colbie Caillat's songs. "Bubbly" reminds me of how i feel around Grumpy =)
And I'm also listening to The Blackout.. Kind of doing background reading as Im watching them live this Tuesday!
Can't wait!
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